Passive aggressive 

Acting upon agression in a non-confrontational manner.

Being passive aggressive is eating the last piece of your brothers cake.. not because you wanted it. Just because he pissed you off earlier and you knew he wanted it.

Passive aggressive by wanted my picture here June 12, 2019

Passive aggressive 

Avoiding confrontation with very snide indirect comments.

H: Oh so you want some of HER jelly!?
D: You are so passive aggressive...

Passive aggressive by D34THD34L3R November 15, 2017

Passive Aggressive 

passive aggressive
A defense mechanism that allows people who aren't comfortable being openly aggressive get what they want under the guise of still trying to please others. They want their way, but they also want everyone to still like them.

Jane: It's time to go, we really should get going now.

Passive Aggressive Ann: Oh...okay. I just...well okay, I GUESS we can leave now.

Jane: Ann, do you want to stay? Is that what you're trying to get at?

Passive Aggressive Ann: Huh? Oh no, we can leave if YOU want. I just didn't get to do everything I wanted to do yet, but no no, we can go I guess.

Jane: God dammit Ann! Fine, we'll stay, are you happy?

Passive Aggressive Ann: Oh okay! Yeah! That sounds great too!
(Ann got her way without having to openly ask for it)

Passive Aggressive by Miltonation March 16, 2008

Passive aggressive 

Confront?

Yes
No
Too scared (X)

So resort to veiled hostility?

Yes (X)
No

Helen: I'm not passive aggressive, John.
John: Could've fooled me, cause you've been ignoring me all day.
Helen: Whatever.

Passive aggressive by BruhTwoPointO June 16, 2021

passive aggressive 

act of doing something specifically to piss someone off, but with the cover of "I didn't realize it would bother you".

My roommate was talking shit on me, so when she was trying to study I blasted my music as loud as I could. I was being passive aggressive.

passive aggressive by shouvley May 25, 2007

passive aggressive 

When someone tries to annoy or hurt someone verbally by saying a put down in a coy or apparent unaware way.

Your mom is passive aggressive. She always acts sweet and then suttley mentions my three abortions in a matter of fact way.

passive aggressive by Fes October 9, 2003

passive aggressive 

a phrase that originally described indirect acts of aggression that either could not be traced to the actor or that could be ascribed to a benign, non-spiteful motivation. Once the phrase entered the popular lexicon, it has come to describe any action or inaction that the speaker dislikes but which the speaker cannot explain why the action is unjust or otherwise wrong.

The following are examples of passive aggressive behavior.
1. My lab mate did not like my not obeying his every wish, so he got back at me by sabotaging my experiments.

2. She was angry at me for declining her date invitation so, at the party, she bumped my glass spilling wine on my shirt and said that it was an accident.

The following is an example of how "passive aggressive" has come to be used in the popular lexicon.

Person 1: "OMG, he like totally refuses to put the toilet seat down after he uses it, and then he gives me dirty looks when I tell him he needs to do that."

Person 2: "Is it any more effort for you to put the toilet seat down than it is for him to put the toilet seat up to avoid peeing all over it?"

Person 1: "He's just so passive aggressive."

passive aggressive by gentimental April 14, 2011