alternabear's definitions

giver party

An orgy, especially among gay, bisexual and queer men, where an individual has as much unprotected sex as possible with the intention of contracting HIV.

I didn’t go to Joe’s gangbang because I found out it was a giver party.

by alternabear December 15, 2023

side

A gay man who enjoys foreplay, such as kissing, cuddling, manual stimulation, fellatio, and analingus, but not actual sex.

As with anything, discuss any risks and comfort levels with any potential partner(s) prior to having sex. Have real conversations. It’s okay to like what you like and not like what you don’t, as long as you don’t mislead anyone.

“Are you a top, a bottom, or vers?
“I’m more of a side.”

by alternabear June 17, 2018

skirt

In movies and books, a skirt is a female who serves as a romantic or sexual object to a straight male, usually to the protagonist, member of an ensemble cast, or the audience.

While Deanna Troi served as the skirt in TNG, she is a much more complex character.

by alternabear April 19, 2018

breadco

St. Louis slang for Panera Bread. It originally started in the region and the local stores are still branded with the old moniker St. Louis Bread Co. Locals just drop the "St. Louis" part.

Going to breadco. Want anything?

by alternabear September 6, 2017

kiss the ground

A metaphor for a plane you're riding on to land at its destination, particularly on a return flight after being somewhere far away or terrible.

I've been in St. Louis for a week and I can't wait to kiss the ground back at National Airport in the DC area.

by alternabear August 29, 2017

sex-and-the-citying

Walking on the sidewalk in a row instead of in a line, like people do on TV. It's particularly noticeable with Midwestern US tourists in East Coast cities, like New York, DC and Boston. People emulate what they see on TV especially Sex and the City rather than noticing the etiquette and block access for people trying to go around or walk in the opposite direction.

OMG could you please stop sex-and-the-citying it!

by alternabear May 2, 2017

pescy

Abbreviation for pescatarian, or limiting the eating of meat to fish or other seafood.

Pronounced like pesky.

John would love a cheeseburger, but he's trying out being pescy right now.

by alternabear May 20, 2016