The fear of being accosted by a large Amazon warrior-woman. Not to be confused withxenophobia, which is the fear that non-white people from a foreign country will waste use all the community resources before you get a chance to do so.
My xenaphobia kicked in when I attended the drag show and was accosted by a 6 foot tall woman dressed as 90s Madonna.
Usually a male who makes you feel special. He makes you feel like you are the only girl in his life, when really he is trying to use you and then throw you out and get another female to use.