thotdere Share definition Flag A girl who loves to dress up in sexy/revealing outfits but reserves her love and affection for the person she actually loves. Kara likes to dress hot and all, but she’s not a easy person or anything, she’s a thotdere. thotdere by Ikaross May 21, 2021 0 0 Get merch Get the thotdere mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch