One who panders and caters to the needs of others, at great expense of one's self with the sole motive of becoming accepted by said others; a kiss ass.
Enunciated in a bold and ostentatious manner, much lick Chuck Norris would talk down to to Wesley Willis while whooping a snow leopards ass.
"Paul, why are you watching Phantom of the Opera with your new bitch? You're such a Sugar Nigger!"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.