one's self esteem is defined by the number of soul points they have. a particularly harsh burn from a close friend can lead to a net loss of soul points, thus lowering the affected person's self esteem.
steve: those tacos were good last night
ned: your mom's taco was good last night!
steve: ow...my soul points
Boys who enjoy yaoi (a genre in Japan that contains sexual and/or romantic relations between two men); literally translates to "rotten boy"; corresponding female : fujoshi