A grooming technique used by men on emotionally volatile women who are in need of attention, love, care, and someone to listen to their problems and concerns – basically – lending a shoulder to lean on today thus aligning themselves with the possibility of a much more intimate relationship in future.
The girl whom I shoulderjobed years back got in touch with me recently and we had a nice time together. He treated shoulderjob as an investment, as he spent hours listening to her sorrows.
by nonrealist November 4, 2019