"Sam was in the shower when he heard the door open to the motel through the thin walls. Then just as he’d promised - Gabriel appeared right in front of him. The only thing that he didn’t like was that there was a voice chatting with Dean. His mouth was poised to ask a question, but Gabriel mojo-shut the bathroom door and sealed his lips to Sam’s." Quote from Saberiel fanfic.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.