power femme 

a lesbian who revels in displays of femininity NOT because she wants be someones bitch or someone's mom but because she is aware of and enjoys harnessing the power, strength and mysteries commonly associated with notions of femininity.

Jennifer Beals' character (Bette) on The L word. Xena, Warrior Princess. Lots of chicks in NYC

power femme by R. February 1, 2004

Power High Femme 

A queer Femme/of color who is in command of her sexuality; a Femme/of color who is hella smart (maybe with a PhD in HisCon or Critical Ethnic Studies): a Femme/of color who is a fierce and kick ass organizer/activist; a Femme/of Color who is committed to decolonizing everything (including sexuality); a Femme/of color in touch with her cultural/racial heritage, ancestry, and relevant politics and practices; a Femme/of Color who knows and embodies a spiritual erotics, because yes, she’s read Audre Lorde’s essay The Uses of the Erotics; a Femme/of Color who has magical sexual healing powers; a Femme/of Color who knows how to play with High Femme Fashion. A Power High Femme possesses and practices all of this.

Dang Girl, You just did a major historical and statue take down of Christopher Columbus; you look so good in your tropical aqua tights while you do decolonial gardening; AND you’re the best lover ever! You are seriously a Power High Femme/of Color!

Power High Femme by Ordinary Seaman January 23, 2021