Refers to a guy whom a girl treats as second-class choice. These are potential partners who are somewhat incomplete. The girl throws occasion signs to lead them on but parks them hanging just in case she finally decides to use him or in the less likely case, accept him.
"Marcus is just an obiter. I feel kinda sorry that he gets led on by Nicole thinking he has a chance with her when in fact he is second choice."
by kaikai86 September 09, 2011
by AUD Matel May 17, 2008
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Obit is an unusual name for a woman, belonging mostly to unique women. Definitely very attractive, sweet and sometimes flirty. Just don’t piss her off by showing stupidity, she is allergic and can be very rude about it. Either you want her or you want to be her, either way you’re obsessed with her. She charms you all the way.
Girl 1: Ugh, Obit was so disrespectful, she dismissed me in the middle of a conversation!
Girl 2: Maybe you’re not worth the time and the energy
Girl 2: Maybe you’re not worth the time and the energy
by HumanTranslation November 23, 2021