A person with a large curved Dick that can satisfy even the most insatiable of women or men. But don't be fooled by his good looks and coolnature; a Khidhir is ready to eat you up and out anytime.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.