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1: The unique blend of characteristics embodied by the Ken doll from the Barbie franchise, marked by a willingness to take on a supportive role, an embrace of one's feminine side, and a nonchalant acceptance of being an accessory in someone else's world.

2: The ability to challenge gender stereotypes by demonstrating that it's not un-masculine for a man to let a woman take center stage or to embrace his feminine side.

3: A state of being that encourages the breaking of traditional gender roles, promoting the idea that it's okay to be the "side-kick" and not always the hero.
Ryan Gosling, in his role as Ken, exuded a strong sense of Kenergy, challenging traditional masculinity and embracing a supportive role with grace and humor.
kenergy by mancuso5 July 21, 2023
Word of the Day on July 23, 2023
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The opposite of BDE (Big Dick Energy). While BDE means confidence without cockiness, Kenergy means confidence without cock. Much like a Ken doll.
Wow, that bodybuilder that goes to a party in a suit jacket without a shirt sure thinks he has BDE, but actually has some serious Kenergy.
Kenergy by Fuckingfarm November 24, 2022
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Kenergy is the essence of being the Ken to your (presumably) female partners Barbie.

You are a himbo , kinda sorta a munch and a stay at home trophy husband all at once.

You are basically an accessory to your girl. She's the main act and you're just there to make her look even more amazing than she does already.
Friend: Lmao do you know who has a lot of Kenergy?

Me: Omg who?

Friend: Kristoff from Frozen

Me: Naauur you're so right!
Kenergy by Garconhenri April 12, 2023
Kenergy is the aura projected by Ken from Barbie, resembling the attitude of a Chad from your college’s most popular frat house.
While he was catcalling her he was projecting major kenergy.
kenergy by thatrose May 24, 2022
1. Self-involved, narcissistic pride associated with toxic masculinity
2. Cringe-worthy machismo, rooted in empty patriarchal attitudes.
3. The opposite of Big Ken Energy (i.e., confident masculinity that embraces and supports women)
Elon Musk challenging Mark Zuckerberg to a fight stems from deep kenergy.
That man proved his kenergy by slapping a woman's ass without permission.
kenergy by CtGreat August 14, 2023

Kelly Kenerly

A Dance craze. Stick your booty out to one side while bouncing. Now switch it up. Usually working best with a cocktail in one hand. Originated in Key West by the locals. Now everyone is doing it.

Also see: Really sexy woman.
"Do the Kelly Kenerly!"
Kelly Kenerly by Kellog85 September 10, 2011
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