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it's not that deep 

when someone reads too deeply, in the metaphorical sense, into a situation and you want to let them know that they're overthinking, overreacting, or over assuming.
Bro: She posted this screenshot of a song we had listened to before on her story do you think this means she still likes me?

You: it's not that deep
it's not that deep by bagllover July 25, 2021

It's not that deep 

That girl called Sam who is miss _______ daughter and is a total t.p
Sam: it's not that deep
Person: stfu

it's not that deep 

A term used exclusively by the female gender when they want you to get off their back about something, but it is in fact, that deep.
Guy: Are you really staying over at Bronte's house? I thought you guys were just coworkers.
Girl: Yeah, we're just friends.
Guy: Uh huh. And I heard he was talking about getting a new girlfriend and that she was coming over tonight. Are you sure that's not you?
Girl: It's not that deep.
it's not that deep by The Macbroker February 10, 2024

It’s not that deep 

A phrase that emphasizes that the topic being discussed is not something of extreme concern/significance
Wick, don’t be too blown about losing in poker, it’s not that deep it’s just money
It’s okay to have 69 with your ex, as long as you say “it’s not that deep” afterwards!
It’s not that deep by Mdrzik26 December 18, 2019

It’s not that deep 

When a soy boy/girl, takes a situation too far and you have to remind him that it’s not that deep.
Leah - I’m so so sorry I forgot your birthday, I’m literally the worst friend ever uwu

Dom - It’s not that deep, smh

ITS NOT THAT DEEP 

A PHRASE USED AS A REASON TO BE FORGIVEN FOR A MISTAKE

FURTHERMORE, USED TO EXPLAIN THAT A SITUATION IS NOT THAT IMPORTANT OR DEMANDING.
WOMAN, "MY MAN JUST DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL!!!" FRIEND, "BRO ITS not that deep HE JUST SAID HE WANTED SPACE

"I CAN'T BELIEVE HE JUST CHEATED ON ME!!." FRIEND, "WELL YOU DIDN'T PUT OUT SO IT AIN'T THAT DEEP"
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
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