I think calling someone stupid or an idiot is not near as ugly as telling someone it is their fault that their child was killed. Wow!! People here should know that they are stupid or not. But when it comes to the other - that is really an emotional issue that shouldn't be touched at all - IMNSHO.
Boys who enjoy yaoi (a genre in Japan that contains sexual and/or romantic relations between two men); literally translates to "rotten boy"; corresponding female : fujoshi