When a girl tries to go in for a hug and instead of you hugging her, you turnsideways and pat her on the back. The guys that perform the hogie are normally guys that are really bad at picking up on girls "hints."
This originated as a snowboarding term, meaning your performance should be awesome or you should have a really enjoyable time because of your location, otherwise there's no point in being there, and is now used amongst chilled people. It means to live ones' life to the fullest everyday or, originally, to rip the gnar skiing or snowboarding as best you can! To make a difference, have fun and be happy. Life is for living!
Tim (before taking off skiing down the mountain): See you at the bottom man, enjoy the ride!
Jake (taking off): Go huge or go home dude!
Carol: I'm stressed about exams and work and...
Eva: It's fine, just chill out. Go huge or go home!
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.