in reference to a car with a bench seat if you don't have a window seat then you are the ho' bitch seat or any middle spot beteewn three people
when your inside a car that has a bench seat, and there's 3 people there, the middle spot is the ho' seat (ie: male ho'seat male or chick ho' seat chick like in a booth at a resturant or any other seats built for three.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.