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gay vague 

A type of advertising that features people, content or situations that might contain LGBTQ individuals or references to LGBTQ life in a manner that is unapparent or vague. This method can be used by companies to either show acceptance of LGBTQ individuals as normal or by companies who wish to imply an acceptance of LGBTQ individuals with a plausible deniability of any such implication.
Abercrombie & Fitch advertisements feature situations that are examples of gay vague advertising
gay vague by TheGravityGun July 3, 2011
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gay vague 

a man who exibits both gay and straight qualities, confusing an observer to the sexual orientation of the observer.
Woman 1: Look at the hottie!
Woman 2: Girl, he's gay!
Woman 1: No way, he's totally straight, isn't he?
Woman 2: He's just all sorts of gay vague.
gay vague by hc_jersey March 31, 2009
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gay vague 

Ambiguous portrayal in media of someone's sexuality, which may or may not be gay. Straight audiences may miss it but LGBTQ+ audiences may see it that way.

First coined in 1997 by Michael Wilke, a reporter for trade publication Advertising Age, who wrote about a Volkswagen Golf commercial that aired during the much-publicized, April 1997 coming-out episode of "Ellen" (watched by 42 million viewers). It was known for the "Da Da Da" song and featured two young men who could be boyfriends or roommates that find a used chair to take home in their hatchback. Volkswagen claimed it didn't intend to hint that the guys were gay but it was okay if audiences read it that way -- a first for advertisers in that era.

Later, Subaru stealthily ran billboards featuring LGBTQ+-coded license plates that said "XENA-LVR," a reference to the 1995-2001 show "Xena: Warrior Princess," which had a cult status within the lesbian community, and "P-TOWNIE," which refers to Provincetown, Massachusetts, a popular destination for the queer community. The license plates would only stand out to those in the know. According to Mulryan/Nash Advertising that produced the ads, they were intended to reach general audiences as well as provide a coded outreach to LGBTQ+ audiences with a wink and a nod.
I can't tell if the two guys in that commercial are supposed to be a gay couple, friends or roommates because it's gay vague.
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