Alanis: "It's like rain on your wedding day, a no smoking sign on your cigarettebreak, like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife, like meeting the man of your dreams...then meeting his beautiful wife.........
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.