The Black Eyed Cupcake (a.k.a. Black Eyed Unicorn) is a sexual position where one party (usually the female) is kneeling below a seated male with his legs spread eagle. This orientation facilitates the action of licking his asshole while jerking him off.
The 'cupcake' is a subtle reference to the males release of 'icing' as he achieves climax. In addition, the scrotum and erect penis resemble the base of a cupcake with a candle on top.
Rachel Ray is going to lovegiving me a Black Eyed Cupcake tonight.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.