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British word used for someone who bends over. Commonly spelled bender though benda appears more prevalent
Tom (acting gay)
Jerry: AHHH you fooking benda
Benda by aaaaware August 24, 2008
Benda is the first name of a charming girl. Funny, loyal, faithful, her only fault is her delay. Fortunately, her charisma excuses her from her conquests, Benda you will wait for her but you will not be disappointed (unless you do not put Nicki Minaj).
Hi, I’m Benda, which way do you take to get back?
Benda by ghetto phenomene November 22, 2021

Benda'bitch

Benda'bitch (verb) - Another slang term that any man should use. It's in replacement of anal sex, which most women will decline at the sound of. This is a sure-way of getting anal sex with a woman, only you have to benda'bitch instead.
Jessica - "So Jareth, what do you have planned for tonight?"
Jareth - "I don't know, how does anal sex sound to you?"
Jessica - "HELL no, something else in mind?"
Jareth - "Ok, ok. How about we benda'bitch instead. I promise you'll like it."
Jessica - "Sounds interesting! Let's do it!"
Benda'bitch by JUnit Inane August 27, 2006

Agenda Benda 

A politician who hides the nuts, and bolts, of their policy until the last moment, where it is revealed to be something completely different and unexpected. A political transvestite, if you will.
Man, I sure hope Obama doesn't turn out to be an agenda benda.
Agenda Benda by Mikey The Comic February 3, 2010

AGenda Benda 

An activist whose primary goal is to infiltrate a system, demonstrate why some or most of its policies regarding, stances on or investment into a particular matter or position are flawed or inadequate and in need of review.

Also, AGenda Bendas are non-gender-conforming persons whose gender expression stretches the gender identification norm beyond the familiar binary.
"Some student activists for bullying remedies are agenda bendas seeking major policy reform. Sure, they want to protect kids, but they also want the bullies and the schools held liable for assault toward fellow students, even when aggression occurs on the bus."
or
"There are more AG's coming on the hip hop scene in the music industry. It's unexpected because when you first see them, you don't expect them to have female voices."
AGenda Benda by BoisNextDoor December 9, 2012

Slender benda 

Someone always finds a way to get his/her way.
T slash always finds a way to her way because she has the "slender benda" attitude
Slender benda by Aeewosk January 17, 2021
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Palmela Handerson 

Your hand that you masturbate with.
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x:"Girl your fit chewed today!"
Chewed by iod1o March 30, 2022
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Blue Movie 

A pornographic film.

The use of the word "blue" to refer to sexually explicit content was first recorded in Scotland in 1824. "Blue" meant "lewd" because prostitutes dressed in blue gowns.
I found your stash of blue movies under your bed.
Blue Movie by Shayde79 January 20, 2011
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