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Backseating 

When a guy asks a girl to hang out and “for a drive” (usually at night) he is most likely trying to to backseat her. It goes something like this... he proceeds to park somewhere and starts kissing the girl. Then he asks the girl if she wants to go to the backseat so he can fuck her. This is backseating.
Person 1: “Jake asked me to drive around last night and ended up backseating me”
Person 2: “What did I tell you about going on drives with guys at night! They always try to backseat!!!”

Another example...

“I’m getting so horny and this tinder guy asked me to drive around, I’m soooo down to get backseated tonight!”

Another one...

“Fuck I asked this girl to go for a drive last night and she said no; I think she knows I’m going to backseat her yikes :/“
Backseating by Drops2357 August 23, 2020

Backseating 

While in the back of a car (any even a videogame) posting hentai/r34 to a discord server.
Joakim: Ok im backseating right now.
Geir: Wait, why now?
Backseating by k00le August 4, 2022

backreading 

Scrolling up (or scrolling down, depending on the chat app) through a group chat reading every. single. message.
"Dude, why were you online in the group chat but didn't say anything?"
"Sorry, I was backreading about 1000 messages."
"Dude, you have no life."
backreading by j‌k August 25, 2016

Backtexting 

Derivative of 'backstabbing', the act of being friendly to someone's face while secretly bashing them via text (usually while in their company).
I can't believe it, the whole time she was a guest in my house she was backtexting me to her friends.
Backtexting by THETEEJ August 11, 2010

backstabing cockbite 

A phrase used a lot in the hit web sitcom Red Vs Blue
"you backstabing cockbite"
backstabing cockbite by CJ December 3, 2004

backdating 

Making plans to hang out with someone you didn’t really like but had sex with on a first date, in an attempt to retroactively render yourself less of a slut/player.
"Yeah, we did it on the first date. But we’ve been backdating, so I can still say I’ve never slept with anyone I went out with less than three times … "
backdating by aboredlawyer June 26, 2008
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Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

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Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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