The act of breaking up with a significant other only to reconsider once tears begin to flow and a lack of sex begins to create feelings of guilt and lust in the person who did the breaking. Usually if not always leads to the person who dumped the other getting back with them for all of the wrong reasons.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.