A Alamanda is very sarcastic but nice, maybe not so good at keeping secrets but a very great and outgoing person. She is not awkward to talk to and she is very entertaining.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to āfind your placeā. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.