The act of getting super coolextra perks for your fly-ass self when you didn't do anything special to earn it. A bussin surprise for your sweet little eyes.
Yo, Jerry. Go down to Newk's and get a littleextra for yourself - you sexy tiger, you.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.