When a guy takes off a girl's wonderbra, push bra, etc and there is nothing there, he asks "where's the milk?"
Dude 1: You know that chick at the bar with the big boobs?
Dude 2: Ya she was smoking.
Dude 1: Ya, well when I got her bra off I was all like where's the milk?
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.