To manipulate by causing people to feel sorry for you.
And/or to shirk any responsibility for questionable, but otherwise offensive questions.
Heather was pulled over for speeding. When the officer came to her car, he saw Heather crying and hyperventilating, so he decided to let her off with a warning. The cop just got white girled.
Kimberly wore blackface for Halloween and when confronted, she said she had no idea that it could be offensive. She white girled them.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.