A person who is extrememly attractive, and whom you wish you could have a relationship with. however, you know it would never happen so you don't even bother.
Josh is so cute, but he's just too perfect. Every girl wants him, so I don't stand a chance. He's my unattainable.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.