Transphilia is when a person male or female has an sexual attraction to Transgender people. This can be easily detected by the person's specific choice/obsession or "preference". Please note that Transgender people who are sexually attracted to other Transgender people are called Transbian, which is perfectly normal.
Robert: How did your date go with that transgender woman?
Joe: It went amazing. I absolutely love transgender people, in fact that's all I date and look for.
Robert: How come? They're people just like us.
Joe: I don't know man they're just so sexy haha.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.