This is the lesbian equivalent to the gay top or bottom, or giver or taker. One strums and one flicks.
Rachel: Hey there Sian, do you wanna be the strummer or the flicker tonight?
Sian: Hmmm...I fancy being a strummer tonight, but please can you flick me?
Sian: Hmmm...I fancy being a strummer tonight, but please can you flick me?
by DickieMH April 18, 2016
Get the The strummer or the flickermug.