A person who only has sex with himself. They only masturbate and don't have sex with other people. They practiced sologomy. (solo) by themselves or sologomy. Monogomy is sex with one person and sologomy (solo) is sex with oneself.
The monk lived a life of sologomy in the monastery. After he broke up with his girlfriend, Bill decided he was tired of dating and decided to practice sologomy from now on. The geek couldn't find anyone to date so he lived a life of sologomy.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.