When you assume your victims trauma just to get pitty and profit from their misfortune all the while making the person you victimized look like a lier and to get away with their crimes. The most cruel form of gaslighting!
It is Shaneful that you stole from your victim and completely discredited their trauma for your own personal gain! Shane on you! (IN MY LIFE A MAN WITH THE NAME OF SHANE DID THIS TO ME)
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”