Service-Side

A gay, bi, or queer man who identifies as a side (not interested in anal sex) and whose primary focus in sexual encounters is pleasuring his partner through oral sex, mutual masturbation, and other non-penetrative acts, rather than seeking reciprocal stimulation.

A guy who doesn’t do anal (top or bottom) but lives to please. Gets off on getting you off.
“Damn, he’s a total service-side — I didn’t even have to lift a finger, he just sucked me dry.”
by toclus August 30, 2025
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