When you find yourself in the bathroom with a box of Red Hots, but you accidentally spill them all over the floor. Not to let them go to waste, you scoop them all up, along with all the pubes and put them back in the box. Then you give the box of Red Hots to someone as a gift. Preferably, they like Red Hots.
Mark is a douche so I thought it would be funny to give him a red hot chewbacca.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.