Recommangst 

The anxious feeling you get after recommending something to somebody. This may be because you are unsure how the recommendation will reflect on you, or because you are desperate for them to love the thing too.

I had so much recommangst when I got my boyfriend to watch my favourite movie.

Recommangst by Bunch'n'acopes August 28, 2022

recommanditory 

A suggested task that is posed as optional, but failing to do so would not result in your favor.

My boss said working this weekend was up to me. But he gave me that look that said: actually, this is recommanditory.

recommanditory by Audra M June 18, 2007