The nicer version of racism whereby hate and judgment about the inherent distinctions and characteristics of a person is lessened by a complimentary aspect.
It must be nice for you black people to never get sunburned.
Good thing you Asians are great at math or else tipping would be a nightmare.
Praiscism still sorta hurts unless it's funny or original.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.