noun: A person suffering from the chronic need to inflict misery and unhappiness on others in order to feel happiness themselves. Related to the Unhappiness Syndrome, but a miserrhea must spread unhappiness and not simply experience it.
S/he has miserrhea; the suffering it caused is still infecting the staff.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.