A sociosexual phenomenon describing the disparity in perceived sexual normativity between individuals, wherein a behavior or preference considered unconventional, transgressive, or “kinky” by one person is regarded as ordinary or normative by another. This gap highlights the subjective nature of sexual boundaries, shaped by cultural, psychological, and experiential factors.
I thought blindfolds and candle wax were pushing the envelope, but she called it ‘foreplay 101’—classic kink perspective gap.
by McIrish420 July 02, 2025