by 2 bad ass bitches September 5, 2017
This is sometimes used among the asexual community expressing that some on the ace spectrum would rather have cake over sex. Choosing to have both have cake and eat it too.
by I like cake🏳️🌈👩🏻💜🍰 June 6, 2021
1. when someone owns something but is still seeking more of it to benefit from it, especially from another party
2. when someone such as a corporation wants to take more than it's fair share.
2. when someone such as a corporation wants to take more than it's fair share.
First the record labels shut down Napster aned Grokster. Now t hey want to have their cake and eat it to by proposing a tax to destroy internet radio.
by grizmeister May 17, 2010
A phrase popularized by Paul Saunders of Loading Ready Run in the video 3 PS3s. It is used after telling someone what you have/have accomplished to add insult to injury. You do not need to produce a cake, only something edible (such as pie, as detailed by Morgan vanHumbeck in Computer Envy)
Person 1: Man, I can't get Recon in Halo!
Person 2: Well, I have Recon Armor. Also, I have this cake.
Person 2: Well, I have Recon Armor. Also, I have this cake.
by K2Fer October 10, 2009
Mike got dared to have his cake at a Bacholer's Party. He was sick for weeks afterwards.
Having Your Cake is a stupid dare most of the time.
Having Your Cake is a stupid dare most of the time.
by GabbehGurl July 11, 2010
Once eaten, you no longer have it. Like having money and spending it all. Also, in marriage, security vs. freedom - if one cheats, they lose their security of keeping their mate.
by Viola F. Blanton May 25, 2006
When someone wants all of the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. Typically used when seeking sexual favors
Billy has been trying to get with Sally for the past few months, but she won’t sleep with him unless they’re in a relationship. She told him, “ you can’t have your cake and eat it too”
by Brownedbanana May 7, 2020