A popular way of opening a dialogue on the internet. While some people see this as a instant turn off, (rule 88 of the internet clearly states that; "If your statement is preceded by "HAY GUYZ", then you are not doing it right.") others see this as a way of defining who is a "newf*g" and who is cool.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.