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gaslamping 

A form of intimidation or psychological abuse, sometimes called Ambient Abuse where false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory, perception and quite often, their sanity. The classic example of gaslamping is to switch something around on someone that you know they're sure to notice, but then deny knowing anything about it, and to explain that they "must be imagining things" when they challenge these changes.

A more psychological definition of gaslamping is "an increasing frequency of systematically withholding factual information from, and/or providing false information to, the victim - having the gradual effect of making them anxious, confused, and less able to trust their own memory and perception.

This act is often erroneously referred to as "gaslighting." The misnomer in itself is a famous example of the Mandela Effect.
Your spouse begins telling you things that never really happened. For instance, he says that last week he told you he was going to go to the bar with his buddies this Monday night, but you never remember him telling you that.

Or maybe your boss gets angry because you didn't prepare the report he asked you to. When you remind him that he usually prepares that particular report, he snaps that he told you to take care of it a few days ago because he was too busy. However, you know he never asked you to do so.

Both of these could be considered gaslamping.
gaslamping by zoozleprime March 10, 2021
Words you can keep

Gaslamping 

Gaslighting something into thinking the word gaslighting is actually gaslamping
Steve is gaslamping Paula. She’s gonna be saying gaslamp from now on lol
Gaslamping by Sussyboobz May 12, 2023

gaslamping 

The act of lighting the gas from a fart while either getting a blowjob or going down on a girl... Under the covers.
Eby's mom is a freak... She won't let me go down on her without crazy gaslamping.
gaslamping by Soulever March 31, 2015

Gaslamping 

Gaslamping is where a form of intimidation or psychological abuse, where false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory, perception and quite often, their sanity. It is the progenitor of the current rem gaslighting which is a derivative of the former.
Gaslighting? Maybe you’re thinking of gaslamping
Gaslamping by Who remains December 12, 2023

Gaslamping 

The act of gaslighting someone into believing gaslamping is the correct term for gaslighting.
Honey, you’re going insane, it’s called gaslamping, I’ve never heard of this “gaslighting” and I’m definitely not doing it to you.

Gaslamping

When someone says something and you outright deny it or distort it to make it sound like it is not a problem or make it out like someone is stupid.
#1 Gaslamping is so messed up

#2 It's called gaslighting

#1 No it's gaslamping

#2 I don't know where you got gaslamping from, but it's called gaslighting.
#1 Proof?
#2 That's what it's always been called. Are you stupid or something?
Gaslamping by iLickSidewalks June 16, 2026

glamping 

Shorthand for glamorous camping; luxury camping.
I ain't sleepin' in no tent! For real, I'm goin' glamping!
glamping by Goobershanker March 9, 2007
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Acronym, meaning Too Long Didn't Understand
Similar to TLDR
Sister: This meeting was to discuss the rough draft of my essay, where we discussed the subsidiary questions I added in my rough draft. We also discussed the relationship between my main title and the real-life situations I chose to use in my essay. We discussed the structure of my essay as well, specifically the Math AOK section and how it relates to the contradiction of the title. This second meeting was particularly helpful in discussing the implications of my essay claims and how to apply the title across various areas of knowledge. There were many sections of the essay that could have been cut down in wordiness and the ways of knowing required further and more in-depth analysis.

Me: Woah! TLDU!
TLDU by L-Evans January 14, 2019
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