fuck 'em if they can't take a joke Share definition Flag A general catch phrase meaning "who cares?" or "get over it." Sardonic. A tornado blew away their trailer. Oh, well, fuck 'em if they can't take a joke. fuck 'em if they can't take a joke by Liberte July 28, 2006 0 0 Get merch Get the fuck 'em if they can't take a joke mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch