Fem

A gay male with feminine gestures and remarks.

See gay aiken or ryan seacrest

Dale: "OMFG I love that blouse Daisy where did you get it? Is that from Forever 21 cause it's gorgeous!"
Gary to John: "What a fem, total yes homo".

by trigger1007 October 16, 2008

Fem

An insult to men; Feminine, gay, girly-man

Dude, quit being so fem and get onto that strip club!

by Devin M. September 21, 2006

Fem

(n.) A man who displays feminine conduct; one who wears girl jeans and has a fauxhawk; one who backs down from an altercation.

Look at that dude! he's wearing abercrombie board shorts and a scarf, and it's 400 degrees outside! what a fem!

by dubslang July 20, 2009

Fem

Another word for graffiti or tagging.

Dats one sick fem!
Dat fem is brass man
I femmed up the bridge last nyt!

by emmajane May 11, 2006

Fem

Another word for graffiti or tagging.

Dats one sick fem!
Dat fem is brass man
I femmed up the bridge last nyt!

by emmajane May 6, 2006

Fem

A very Beautiful woman, Who is irresistibly sexy And can get anyone she wants.

Oh my god, that chick is one hot Fem.

she is such a fem,

You dirty fem!

by Maron Aikimoto October 16, 2008

fem

Abbreviated from the word feminine, fem refers to a person on the LGBT spectrum who demonstrates behaviors that are stereotypically associated with women. Most often, these behaviors are exaggerated in an effort to fetishize femininity. For instance, a fem gay man might wear makeup or use animated hand gestures. A fem lesbian might make a point to wear dresses or carry a purse.

The use of the fem label may be used within the gay community to insult one's manhood or lack of masculinity.

Antonym (opposite) of the word masc

"Honey, those nails are on point, the face is beat, and the hair is snatched. Fem queen is stunting tonight."

"No fats, no fems, no asians" (derogatory usage)
"So you're lesbians, right? Which one is the fem and which is the guy?" (unintentionally derogatory usage)

by BlackDiamondMint December 31, 2018