Someone who is tolerant and doesn't kill and wish harm on every gay person they see. Word started by a church of 70, featured on the Tyra Banks show that hate gay people and blame everything from Katrina to 911 on gay people. See God Hates Fags.
*Harry walks by a gay bar.*
*Harry gets shot by a brown-toothed women yelling 'fag enabler'*
The friend of your boyfriend/girlfriend who regularly encourages him/her to engage in scandalousbehavior behind your back.
"My girlfriend went out with the damn frenabler, tonight."
"Yeah, I know; I just got back from the club, and they were all coked up, grinding all over some douchebags."
A good person, who is accepting of most people, mainly homosexuals. Initially intended as an insult, but vastly unaffective seeing as most fag enablers are proud to be fag enablers.
-Did you hear about that fag enabler Heith Ledger?
-Yeah, it's a shame we lost such an open-minded person.
Kara and Kim were famnablering in their blue Harborview room #520 while on their computers drinking mountain dew and pineapple juice in the month of october.