when tamar was sitting on the bus with josh, she dissapitated the situation by ignoring him
when dovid was at a party, he saw sara, so he drank to dissapitate the conversation.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.