After having rough sex, the dude pops his red balls (resembling elmo) into the chick's ass, thus making it dirty. Afterwards, the chick can either lick it off, like a lollipop, or just enjoy the ball to anus pleasure. The definition is quite flexible.
Example 1 (balls into anus):
Dude1: Dude, she's so hot.
Dude2: I'm gonna enjoy poppin the dirty elmo.
Example 2 (lollipop licking the dirty elmo):
Dude1: Dude, I hear she's quite rough in bed.
Dude2: I hope she enjoys poppin the dirty elmo.
May I have an order of regular degular buttermilk pancakes? Without all the added jazz? Hold the blueberry smiley face, strawberry glaze, chocolate chips and whipped cream.
Usually a male who likes to encourage weight gain in his partner through the consumption of food. Feeders differ from FAs... whilst an FA is attracted to big girls, a feeder gets turned on by making a thin girl fat....or a big girl even bigger.