The fetish for a cisgender individual to imagine being in the perspective or POV as either mixed sex or the opposite sex. This can extend to pov porn of someone from a different gender of them, to images or fantasies of them being a different gender or mixed gender to mixed sex in the form of erotic exploration.
My diaerotisism almost makes it easier for me to understand or empathize with the sexuality of different genders, but I know that my erotic fixation isn't fully accurate to how a person of a different gender truly feels.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.