Crossoppled means something's that out of line or off-centre or offending my OCDness. A picture may be hung crossoppled; a child may button his shirt crossoppled; a table can be set crossoppled (particularly by a southpaw); books on shelves may be crossoppled.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.