When your neighbor has an antfarm so you proceed to cum on the ant farm providing the ants nutrients until your neighbor figures out it you and decided to do something about it, when you explain its for nutrients and you stop and clean it up for them. The premise is to keep doing it until they catch you
Neighbor 1: yo i seen you doing chology in my yard and i really want you to stop or ill call the police
Neighbor 2: thats fine with me, don't call the cops i will never do it again and i'll clean it up for you
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.