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Chillatives 

Chillative (noun, plural: Chillatives) is a neologism formed by blending the words "chill" and "relative". It refers to a person with whom one shares a strong emotional bond similar to family, but formed purely through shared vibe, understanding, and comfort — not blood or obligation.

Derived from:

Chill (slang): to relax, to feel at ease, or someone with a calm personality

Relative: a family member by blood, law, or marriage

Chillative redefines this concept by replacing blood ties with emotional resonance, shared experiences, and mutual comfort.

Definition:

Chillative (plural: Chillatives)

noun
1. A person who feels like family, not because they have to, but because they want to.
2. A chosen companion who radiates chill energy and understands your vibe without explanation.
3. An emotionally safe person you can laugh, vent, cry, or be chaotic with — without judgment.
“She’s not my cousin or anything. She’s my Chillative.”
“We just clicked instantly — total Chillative energy.”
“I’d rather hang out with my Chillatives than my actual relatives this weekend.”
Chillatives by Chillatives July 15, 2025
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Chillaxitives

Yo you want to go get some chillaxitives and chill?
Chillaxitives by Hasselhoffman February 15, 2009

chillationship 

a combination of chill and relationship. Essentially describes a relationship that is easy on both partners, not requiring insane effort to keep each other happy. Maybe you don't have to talk 24/7, or see each other every day, and no one gets offended when talking to others of the opposite sex, but hey, its a chill relationship.
Chillationship = every man's dream.
chillationship by ///M Power! January 19, 2009

chillationship 

It's when your not in a relationship but no yall are rocking and be lowkey and just vibe with each other.
Me and this boy are in a chillationship
chillationship by Funniestdick February 20, 2017

Chillationship 

An undefined relationship between two people. You both like each other, you're both comfortable with each other, but there is no title. You guys are just " chilling ", which is pass the talking stage of the relationship.
Her : what are we ? Are we friends with benefits ? Are we just friends? Are we friends who like each other ? But can date other people??

Him: chill. We're just chillin. We're in a chillationship.
Chillationship by Denuhtroi May 7, 2017

Chillactivism 

Actions performed in support of social or political cause while hanging out with friends, e.g., talking about dreams while marching against injustice or catching up while handing out food to hungry people.
1. Chillactivism is the new brunch. 2. I thought chillactivism would be the best remedy for a broken heart, so my bestie and I went door to door to register voters, and in between, I cried on her shoulder.
Chillactivism by Rumi With A View January 25, 2018

Chillactive

This word is used for when you may be tipsy or high and are feeling very chilled and relaxed but also hyper and have a lot of energy at the same time. It can just mean that you're feeling very relaxed but jolly and need to move around and feel wide awake.
Guys, I'm feeling so chillactive right now, like I feel really cosy and chilled but I feel like running around at the same time.
Chillactive by Lucazz Mars July 10, 2014
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