Bishesta is a name usually given to a girl in Nepali language. A bishesta is a very attractive girl with quite nice sense of humor. She lacks in no such area, she is an extremely smart and kind girl.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.